10 Erotic Games to Try Out With Your Partner

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10 Erotic Games to Try Out With Your Partner

Last update: 07 August, 2022

Erotic games to challenge your partner are the perfect tool to recover the magic and passion of a relationship and put an end to sexual monotony that often affects married life.

Although we all have our customs as well as favorite positions when it comes to sex, we must seek to leave our comfort zone and dare to innovate.

Only in this way will we find new stimuli and pleasant and fun experiences. Are you going to try them? Discover ten interesting erotic games to challenge your partner.

Erotic games: types and importance

Erotic games are a perfect tool to put aside the sexual monotony that sometimes affects life as a couple, especially when it comes to intimacy.

Although it’s inevitable to have certain customs when it comes to sex, innovating and looking for other stimuli can help achieve more pleasant and fun experiences.

In this order of ideas, different types of erotic games can be used. There are certain mental, roles, submission, or subjugation, and those that involve toys or costumes…and more.

Communication in erotic games

Before starting, it’s essential to improve communication with your partner since both must be able to express their disagreement or preferences. If they don’t agree and don’t want to commit to the roles, there will be no game.

From this starting point, you both will be able to break the routine and will be able to enter into interesting games that help improve the quality of sexual relations, as described by Ashley ML Brown in her book Sexuality in Role-Playing Games. So, jot down some ideas!

10 erotic games with which to challenge your partner

Next, we will learn some erotic games to challenge or challenge your partner, to make him go further, and you together with him or her. Dare to try them!

1. The Prisoner

Are you dominant or submissive in bed? It doesn’t matter here, because you can take turns in these games.

prisoner sex game

It creates a very exciting situation in which one partner is at the mercy of the other, immobilized and defenseless.

How does it go?

  • The “dominant” uses handcuffs or a tie to immobilize their “slave”.
  • The prisoner will be subjected to what the other partner wants and will have to enjoy their “sentence” without complaining.
  • The other person can start exploring the prisoner’s body using their lips, hands, or a sex toy.

2. The blind man

This is a classic sex game that will definitely arouse your partner. It’s an activity that stimulates the senses, especially since you focus on touching and feeling with your mouth and other elements due to the fact that you can’t see.

It goes perfectly with the previous sex game we listed, but you don’t necessarily have to subdue the other partner.

How does it go?

  • One of you must cover the other’s eyes with a dark blindfold.
  • After this, start stimulating each other.

3. Temperature

There are many ways to play with temperature when having sex. They produce interesting sensations in the erogenous zones and often help reach orgasm.

Of course, the experts from the Naval Polytechnic Academy warn that it’s important to verify that the temperatures are suitable for the skin; since the idea is to enjoy and not cause injuries or pain.

How does it go?

First, choose something that has a different temperature:

  • An ice cube
  • Hot oil
  • A cold mint
  • A hot drink

After choosing, the person places it in their mouth or applies it to the skin and starts stimulating with slow movements.

Take a look at this article: How to Improve Your Partner’s Erection

4. Body Painting

Creative people may feel very excited with this foreplay idea: body painting. It’s a very exciting practice that strengthens sentimental ties in a very special way.

How does it go?

  • Both partners get naked and body paint each other.
  • It’s not about creating masterpieces. The idea is to enjoy the feeling of the brush and paint on your bodies.
  • It’s important to use paint that’s suitable for the skin to prevent future rashes or allergic reactions.

5. Roleplay, some of the most interesting erotic games

The advantage of role-playing games is that you the possibilities are endless.

role play sex game

Besides the classic “dominant and submissive” games, there are versions with costumes, scripts, professions, and many other elements that create an interesting fantasy.

How does it go?

  • Each participant plays a role (for example boss and secretary).
  • If possible, both can play a totally different role to experience something more exciting.
  • The important thing is that both partners play their characters perfectly, creating a story with behaviors and hot dialogues.

6. Naked twister

Why not take advantage of this classic children’s game to bust out of a boring sex routine? The postures adopted can be very exciting for both of you.

How does it go?

  • Place your feet and hands on the mat with the colors, as is done in the usual game.
  • The difference is that being naked makes everything more erotic.

7. Strip poker

Strip poker has become one of the most common foreplay erotic games.

strip poker

It’s a way to excite your significant other while enjoying prolonged eroticism before having intercourse.

How does it go?

  • You play poker, but don’t bet any money.
  • Instead, when one of you loses, you must remove a piece of clothing until both of you end up completely naked.

8. Clue game or treasure hunt

We have all played a game of following clues to seek treasure. But in this case, the treasure is a sexual encounter with the partner.

How does it go?

  • First, they must agree on who is to be the seeker and who is to be the sought after.
  • It’s up to the person sought to determine a meeting place, where he or she will be waiting for his or her partner.
  • Throughout the day, the search engine will find the clues in the places where the other person left them, and follow their instructions over the phone.
  • In the end, the seeker should arrive at the place where his partner is, waiting… without clothes!

9. What part of my body is it, or what am I doing?

This is a game to play with your partner when you’re apart for some reason.

How does it go?

  • The person sends their partner a photo of some part of their body, a piece of clothing, or something in front of them so that the other has to respond which part it is or what the other person is doing.
  • In the end, whoever answers the most times correctly will win a special prize.

10. Slave for a day

This game can be part of another, as a prize. The person who has lost a bet or a game will be the slave of their partner for 24 hours and must do everything that the other asks (within certain limits that do not mean violating their integrity, of course).

Free your iimagination with erotic games

And you? What tricks do you use so that everyday life doesn’t end the passion in your relationship? Did you like any of the aforementioned erotic games? Would you put them into practice?

Share erotic games with your partner and encourage her or him to enjoy them with you to end the monotony that makes sex boring once and for all!



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