Description and Characteristics of Parathymia
Laughing at a funeral or when a friend expresses desolation because a beloved family member has a terminal illness might be due to Parathymia. This is an emotional disorder a person experiences when they express themselves inappropriately in a particular situation.
This doesn’t mean they’re not sad when a person died, as per the funeral example above. It’s only that there’s a discrepancy between what they feel and what they express.
It’s important not to confuse Parathymia with emotional indifference though. A person definitely feels, but is incapable of expressing themselves adequately. That’s not the case with emotional indifference as a person in this scenario doesn’t express emotions because they don’t feel them.
Types of Parathymia
In order to better understand this emotional disorder, we must first talk about the three types. This is because it’s important to differentiate them so as not to mistake one for the other. After all, they do have similar characteristics.
Let’s review each one of them.
This is the one we’ve referred to so far, albeit in a general way. A person who experiences it is unable to express an emotion that matches what they’re feeling.
They’re emotions that confuse those around them because they’re not in accordance with what they’re feeling. It’s as if something is wrong; as if there’s a disconnection.
2. Positive parathymia
A person with positive parathymia is usually in a state of hyperactivity and euphoria.
This state is maintained over time and is what differentiates it from the manic phase in bipolar disorder. The state of euphoria in this emotional disorder can be lengthy and disconcerting to those around.
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3. Negative parathymia
The opposite happens in this type.
A person with negative parathymia maintains a state of sadness for a long time. One could compare it to the depressive phase of bipolar disorder. However, a person may in fact be happy – they’re just unable to express it. Instead, they only show great sadness, a melancholic state they cannot get rid of.
The causes of parathymia
It may also be due to bipolar disorder, which we mentioned above when we compared positive and negative parathymia. In fact, this sort of makes us think that this emotional disorder rarely appears by itself.
Symptoms of parathymia
There’s basically one symptom: the inability to express what a person is really thinking or feeling. The people around might be surprised and frightened, as they don’t understand why the person is crying at a birthday party or laughing at a funeral.
It’s definitely puzzling and clashes with our cultural background, and also causes discomfort and frustration in the person who experiences it.
Furthermore, people with parathymia can’t control the way they express themselves. It leads to rejection, both from others and from themselves. Thus, the situation leads to isolation, to not feeling worthy of being with others. It’s quite damaging to self-esteem.
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We gave some above but we must emphasize them to try to make it easier to understand. It’s not common to meet people with this disorder but knowing the symptoms and how they really feel will help you to understand them in case you run into one of them:
- A person says they’re in deep pain while smiling broadly
- Someone confesses they have terminal cancer and then bursts out laughing
- Or, they express great sadness when someone says they love them
- They may seem rather distressed at their own wedding
The best treatment for parathymia is pharmacological in the form of antipsychotics, antidepressants, and anxiolytics.
Drugs on their own won’t be enough though. The pharmacological approach must be supplemented by therapy to teach them certain strategies to express what they’re feeling.
One must also take into account the causes. A brain injury may not require drugs if it has a good prognosis. Moreover, we must stress the importance of understanding this disorder.
A person with schizophrenia or a personality disorder must understand what’s happening to them. Many disorders are still in the shadows, so bringing them to light will allow us to be more sympathetic to those afflicted by them.