Stimulating the G-spot in Men: What You Need to Know
In recent years, there seems to be a shift in the way sexuality is communicated. In fact, it’s being treated more openly. However, despite this, there are still many taboos and myths about stimulating the G-spot in men, also called the H-spot or P-spot.
Machismo and toxic masculating, which have been prevalent in society for centuries, has prevented men from discovering the pleasure generated in this area. The fear of “losing their masculinity” or considering the act as something that’s “unhygienic” continues to be an obstacle to many men’s enjoyment.
Indeed, many still even question the existence of this erogenous region and refuse to think that it can be stimulated in a relationship without this being synonymous with deviating their sexuality. Nevertheless, some put aside their prejudices and take an interest in the subject.
What should we know about stimulating the G-spot in men? How can we do it for a satisfactory experience? We know that both men and women want to solve these questions, so in today’s article, we’d like to share the most important aspects to keep in mind.
The G-spot in men: Where is it located?
To enjoy sexual fulfillment as a couple, it’s a good idea to know beforehand in which region the G-spot in men is located. For obvious reasons, there are great anatomical differences if we compare it with the G-spot in women.
The male G-spot is actually the prostate gland, a fibrous organ located inside the rectum, about 5 centimeters from the anus and on the wall facing the front. It’s an area where there are many nerve endings; therefore, it’s very sensitive and erogenous.
It can be accessed through the anus by carefully inserting a finger. Once the anal sphincter is crossed, the rectum is reached. In this area, several centimeters deep, it’s possible to feel a one-centimeter thick bulge: this is the prostate.
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What is the prostate?
WebMD experts say the prostate is a walnut-shaped gland that is part of the male reproductive system. Its main function is to help produce semen and it is located below the bladder, almost in front of the rectum.
The gland tends to grow with age and can suffer from various health problems, such as prostatitis, enlarged prostate, and even cancer. Exploring the G-spot in men could help detect abnormalities; therefore, it’s also considered a preventive measure to be familiar with this area and get regular check-ups.
How to stimulate the G-spot in men
The topic of G-spot stimulation in men can cause a lot of hesitation. While some women fear that their partners will refuse to explore this area, others are afraid of causing harm due to the natural lack of lubrication in the area.
Well, first of all, the key is to talk about the topic together with confidence, since it’s necessary that both agree to do it. As women, it’s important to let them know that the situation is completely normal and that it doesn’t affect their masculinity.
Of course, it’s always essential to respect each other’s sexual decisions, as there’s no point in forcing the situation. Then, if he decides he wants to be stimulated in the G-spot, it’s good to know how to achieve a good stimulation.
Try oral sex before stimulating the G-spot
The practice of oral sex before reaching the G-spot in men is a great way to put him in a state of relaxation and tranquility. So, while he enjoys the pleasure generated up front, she can start gently touching the backside.
- Try to carefully massage the perineum – that is, the part of the skin between the anus and the testicles. This area is very sensitive and can prepare your partner before stimulating the G-spot.
Make sure to use lubricant
Men, like women, have the need to relax the anal sphincter to facilitate penetration. For this reason, before inserting the finger into the area, it’s essential to lubricate well with a suitable product.
- Move your finger around his anus and apply the lubricant with a gentle massage to achieve greater arousal.
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The G-spot in men: How to find it?
Once the area is properly lubricated, it’s time to insert a finger to stimulate the G-spot in men. However, it must first be located. It’s worth remembering that it feels like a small “nut”, with a slightly rough texture.
- Once she finds it, you can stimulate the G-spot by gently moving your finger and trying to imitate the “come hither” gesture. Rub at different rhythms until you find the most exciting movement for him.
Use sex toys
There are many sex toys that can help enhance the experience when stimulating the G-spot in men. Ideally, start incorporating them when he has experienced the above and feels more comfortable and ready.
Some fun options are:
- Anal spheres
- Anal plugs
- Anal stimulators
- Prostate massagers
Other erogenous zones in men
There are other erogenous zones that you can also stimulate, either before, during, or after reaching the G-spot in men. These are:
- The mouth and lips: You can rub them with yours, pass your fingers over them, insert them for him to suck.
- The penis: This whole organ is a sexually sensitive area, mainly in the head or glans, as well as the foreskin (when it’s not circumcised).
- The scrotum: This is the is that bag of skin that surrounds the testicles. It’s very sensitive if you rub it gently.
- The crotch: You can caress here while getting close to his member, and then move away a little.
- The neck: In addition to kissing it and running your tongue over it, you can play with some ice and see how it bristles.
How to enjoy a man’s G-spot
It’s also important to ask men if they feel comfortable or if they don’t like something. This is why, once you get into this erogenous zone, it’s good to ask him “do you like it here?” or “how do you feel?” Moans of pleasure and their expressions can serve as an indicator. Enjoy!It might interest you...
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