A Deep Gaze Is a Bridge Between Two Souls

12 November, 2018
Did you know that the eyes are one of the few things that can betray us? Unable to consciously control them, they may reveal your intentions to others. The gaze between two souls can reveal a lot.

With one look, two souls can connect deeply, with more emotion and more security.

This idea is popular for a reason: people can control their movements and gestures at will. So if a person wanted, they could hide certain behaviors to conceal a hidden agenda.

The eyes, on the other hand, as well as their associated processes, like dilation of the pupils, are controlled by the autonomic nervous system.

This is why it’s impossible for you to make your eyes dilate at will. For example, when you’re attracted to someone, these dilate due to the intense emotions you experience during attraction.

That peculiar gleam hides no false pretenses, but reveals a brain dominated by attraction that reveals itself in your gaze.

The eyes and the fascinating processes they reflect

If your eyes are, as some people say, the windows to the soul, science is unable to prove it. So far, according to science, the soul is something intangible that only religion and spirituality can address.

What is clear is that the gaze is a powerful weapon and a source of emotional connection between two souls – both in the human and animal world.

Body language experts tell us that the eyes relay the most nonverbal communication, especially through dilation of the pupils. This involuntary response is beyond our control and responds to more than changes in light. It also relays emotions. Let’s take a closer look.

Two souls can be brought together by tears

The pupils and the focus of our interest

Eckhard Hess is a bio-psychological expert who led a study on ophthalmology and the emotions at the University of Chicago. This study revealed many interesting aspects about the dynamics of our pupils.

  • The pupils, as we mentioned earlier, are not limited to contracting and dilating solely in response to changes in light. When you’re holding a conversation that really captures your interest, your pupils will also dilate.
  • When you witness something that you don’t like, or that causes an averse or uncomfortable reaction, the pupils contract.
  • When you’re around someone who you’re physically attracted to, your pupils will be larger.
  • Another curious fact is that when you’ve finished a complex activity or finally discover the solution to a problem, the pupils will expand as well. This is truly interesting and something we are not consciously aware of.

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The importance of eye contact between two souls

  • People expect you to make eye contact when you’re communicating with them. That’s just a fact of life. It’s more than a way of showing respect: it shows you’re paying attention and interested.
  • On the other hand, when you feel intense visual contact from someone you don’t know, you might perceived it as a form of intimidation.
  • According to some people, a person looking to deceive another will usually avoid eye contact and look nervously and unconsciously to the corners of their eyes. They may avoid looking at the eyes of the other person for any length of time.
Animal eye contact can connect two souls as well

Glance to the left, glance to the right

We need to point out that this theory about the direction of the gaze and its significance requires many more studies and scientific proof.

However, some proponents of these theories claim that:

  • When holding a conversation, if the other person quickly shifts their gaze from left to right, it means that they are “creating or inventing” something. This doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re directly deceiving you. Sometimes, it can mean they’re trying to find the best way to explain themselves concretely.
  • When someone looks away to the left, it means they are trying to remember something.

Watch out for tears

Not all tears are sincere. Unlike the dilation of the pupils, it’s possible for people to summon tears at will.

  • Some people use crying, or even wetting the face to give the appearance of tears, to take advantage of emotions that connect people. This may sometimes give the crying person the desired result of a closer relationship or forgiveness.
  • Although most people think crying is a characteristically human behavior, some animals, like elephants and gorillas, also cry. But humans can produce tears at will.
  • Therefore, one of the best ways to test a person’s sincerity is to pay attention to their movements and how dilated their pupils are.

See also: Learn About The Importance of Crying (The Right Way)

Two souls enjoying a day in the field

If someone pays attention to what you say, maintains good eye contact, and has dilated pupils while they talk to you, it’s a telltale sign that they’re interested. If you give them the same, then two souls may be connecting.

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