Do you remember your first sexual encounter? For you, sexuality was something you were imagining and fantasizing about. It was something very pleasant.
However, when you begin having relationships, you realize that having a full and satisfying sex life is not as easy as it seems.
Sometimes it is because we don’t know our own body and sometimes we are ashamed. Sometimes we just haven’t discovered what we really like.
If you just don’t enjoy sex, in this article we are gong to discuss how to wake up this aspect of your life.
Know your body
For many people, knowing the body is very important. There are many people, women and men, who don’t explore themselves, or look at, touch or investigate their genitals.
It seems that there is a lot of modesty in today’s world. This exists, not just in older people but in younger people as well.
Sometimes this modesty affects what people even think about masturbation. This is a healthy practice that allows people to seek pleasure and find out what they enjoy.
If we don’t do this, it’s going to be difficult to enjoy ourselves when we are with another person.
So explore yourself. Don’t be ashamed or think that you are doing something wrong.
Communicate with your partner
Is he hurting you? Do you want to be touched in a different way? Going back to the topic of shame, but this time we are not referring to our own bodies, but to communicating with our partner.
You need to tell your partner what you like. Otherwise, you will have an unsatisfactory sex life.
You may be lucky and enjoy yourself. But, what would you like to try? Where do you want to be touched now?
Communication between partners is essential and more so when it comes to sex. Because of this, it’s important to know your body. If you don’t know what you like you won’t be able to ask for it.
Never consider yourself an object
In the past, and in some cultures today, it was thought that the purpose of women was to create children. Fortunately, that belief is losing popularity today.
Also, you should not feel that it is your duty to offer your body to your partner who wants to have sex when you are not in the mood.
You also have needs and the right to say “no.” If you don’t feel like having sex then don’t. This can create a lack of enjoyment of sex.
Doing this, you will never have a full and satisfying sex life. Never think that you are an object. You have the right to say “no.”
Take advantage of all your senses
Missionary style? Routine sex? In order to maintain a healthy sex life you need to try new things. Put a little spice in your encounters.
Lingerie, chocolate, different flavors… You can even try positions from the Kamasutra. For many it’s fun, a way to spend time together and a way to stay in shape.
Have you heard of tantric sex? It is also a way of experimenting in the area of sex.
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Introducing toys and other things can help you experience new things and a new world of pleasure.
You are a couple and in the world of sex you can also do new things. Why don’t you do them together?
Shame isn’t the only great impediment to enjoyment. Terrible complexes are another big one.
Your partner knows your body but you will never have healthy sex if you always have the lights turned off. Maybe you don’t experiment with different positions because you don’t want to expose certain areas of your body that you don’t like.
If you don’t like certain parts are your body there are two solutions: you can accept them the way they are or you can do something to change them.
Why do you have such a complex if your partner likes you the way you are? The only person who is not liking you is you.
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Have you ever made mistakes such as the ones we have mentioned above? Remember that to have a full and happy sex life you need to keep an open mind.
Keep an open mind to discover new games, enjoy without complexes and communicate without shame.
Are you ready to enjoy your sex life now?!