Habits for a Happy Relationship
Most of the time that you're together, a happy relationship has people that show signs of affection and showing how important the other person is to you.
Is there a formula for a happy relationship like in fairy tales or movies? Is there a secret that’s hidden under a thousand locks that tells you how to reach the fulfillment you want in a relationship?
In this article, we’re going to tell you some of the habits you can start using so that your relationship will be fantastic.
How do you get a happy relationship?
This is one of the big questions. However, the good news is that there are different techniques or habits that can answer it.
The only question is if you will commit to it. You need to work to make it possible to have the relationship you want.
Take a look at the following advice:
1. Go to bed together
This means that you need to make your relationship a priority above everything else. Going to bed together is an activity that strengthens your bonds and increases collaboration.
When you do this, you can enjoy talking about your feelings, your fears, and your goals.
On the other hand, if one of you goes to bed and falls asleep before the other, this changes things. It makes it a hard to have a conversation.
2. Have common interests
When you met, it’s likely that something caught your attention and you clicked. As time goes on, however, maybe your likes and interests have changed.
One of the main problems of modern pairs is that each one does their activities without sharing it with the other.
It’s not necessary that you like the same things. However, if possible, you should take a few moments per day to spend together and enjoy your free time.
3. Greet them every time you see them
You can never show too much love. It’s not enough to simply say “have a good day” before going to work. Physical contact is essential.
A kiss or a hug each time that you say goodbye or hello can improve your relationship. Unhappy partners don’t usually greet each other at any part of the day. This includes if they have spent several hours apart.
4. Spend time alone together
When you have made a family, it’s more difficult to get time to yourselves.
Your obligations and daily activities make this difficult. As time goes on, you have less and less space for yourself to spend with your partner and no one else.
You should try to reserve at least an hour every week where no one will interrupt you.
You can eat dinner at a restaurant Friday night, take a walk in the park, or watch a movie on TV. The important thing is that there isn’t anyone else around.
5. Don’t let arguments grow
How many times have you started talking about something small and it grows into a shouting match?
This happens because one thing leads to another. Like a snowball, it just gets bigger and bigger.
You need to concentrate on the problem at hand and do everything possible to solve it. You need to have a goal.
- For instance, if the problem is a lack of money, don’t keep arguing about personal relationships, the kids, etc. (unless they are directly tied to the main subject).
6. Express your feelings
Everyone likes to be complimented. This is especially true if they come from the person we love.
It doesn’t matter how much time you spend together: from time to time, try to say something nice to the other person.
This might sound like one of these phrases: “That tie looks great on you,” “I like how that dinner turned out,” “You look handsome today,” “You look really pretty in that dress,” etc.
7. Laugh together
A sense of humor is one of the keys for a happy relationship. Without a doubt, this is a fundamental tool that increases cooperation between both of you. Plus, it helps in difficult situations.
Laughing at anything means that the relationship is healthy and intimate. In addition, it shows that both of you work as a team.
8. Stay intimate
After going through the “honeymoon” period, your relationship may be relatively sexless. As time goes on, kids show up, problems happen, or you have obligations. These things can distance you from intimacy.
However, you can enjoy intimacy another way. For instance, fall asleep while cuddling, sharing knowing glances, saying nice things, etc.
9. Ask for what you need
A common mistake is to think that the other person should know what you want or value.
Over the course of a relationship, you get to know your partner’s likes and interests. However, you also don’t become a “clairvoyant.” That’s why it’s necessary to talk and ask for things.
This means not leaving anything to chance or suspicion. After all, that can lead to more problems than solutions.
By talking openly about your needs, feelings, or what you want from the other, there won’t be misunderstandings.
That way, you can even talk about “complicated” subjects without problems. This includes money, family, or how to raise your children.
10. Have common goals
You need to define the goals that you can reach as a pair. Even though you are individuals, you should define the things that require the support of the other person.
It’s very important to talk about the future to establish (approximate) dates that you will reach your bigger goals. These include getting married, having children, moving, or traveling.