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Different People Make Life More Fun

Don’t ever be afraid to be different. Surround yourself with different people who respect and value the way you are and don’t try to change you.
Different People Make Life More Fun

Last update: 14 March, 2019

Different people break new ground; they wear the shades of a challenge and infuse life with that splash of joyous color that infects every corner.

As Coco Chanel once said, “In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different”. Beelieve it or not, this is something that is hard to do. Those who dare to have an unusual voice are almost always made fun of.

But life is always more exciting if you dare to take the plunge and break that desire to be the same as everyone else; everyone with the same physical abilities, style and thoughts.

It’s not worth it—it’s unhealthy and it won’t make you happy. Being unique is a virtue that everyone should strive to achieve.

We invite you to reflect on this.

Different people should not be afraid

Everyone has inner needs, voices, interests dreams, and desires that you don’t dare share with anyone. You worry this will surprise others and they’ll reject you.

Your education and the environment that you inhabit can often facilitate this. Our society rarely respects those who are “different” or don’t follow the established norms.

  • A particular way of dressing, values, political ideals, sexual orientation, friendships or hobbies could all be aspects that you don’t dare show out of fear. The fear of being rejected.

This isn’t right. Whoever doesn’t dare show the world their needs and identity is just living the lives of others and never their own.

It’s worth spending a few moments thinking about the following dimensions.

A woman lying on top of a leopard to simbolize people who are different

The hard “script of life”

The truth, whether you like it or not, is that most people try to fit in with the “script of life.”

That means that as social groups and individuals, we strive to fit into society, to be like the rest. This is how you manage to integrate and be accepted.

Acceptance provides you with balance, and you receive emotional rewards from others.

Your parents, for example, will be happy if you pursue the job that they recommended or if you do the things that they had planned.

Your friends will be glad if you go with them to a party, and even if it’s not your style, you’re willing to experiment.

  • Eventually you’ll notice that you’re spending a lot of time trying to fit into that “script of life”. But you’ll also be ignoring many of your own desires, tastes, and worries because they’re too different from people expect.

Now…where do all these behaviors get you?

  • They make you turn away from your own identity.
  • You stop reinforcing your own idea of who you are to create a false life raft that pulls you away from yourself in order to survive.

You need to be honest with yourself. If you’re merely surviving to fit the script that others make up for you, you’re not living; it’s not a real life.

It’s a lie that sooner or later will lead to personal crisis and depression.

A girl on a tire swing to simbolize people who are different

Different people don’t wear masks, they’re free

People more or less wear their own masks. Sometimes you put them on to hide your sorrows, to be strong for your children, to be a friend.

  • There are masks that are necessary, but some of them can hide a truly frustrating reality. This is the frustration of not being what you really want to be; the unhappiness of not being able to do what you want.
  • So… why not dare to be different? Far from seeing it as something dangerous, try to accept it as an opportunity. It doesn’t matter how old you are or what you’re involved with every day.
  • Being different is a personal investment that will allow you to enjoy greater personal energy, vitality, creativity, and of course, happiness.

To achieve this and take the plunge, surround yourself with people who allow you to be you in all your essence. Avoid people who judge you, who don’t accept you, who raise an eyebrow every time you make a comment that’s original and fun.

Stay away from those who don’t understand your sense of humor and judge you; those who make you build walls every day, when you in fact need to open roads with the gleam of the dawn and a horizon filled with opportunity…where each day, trains go by with your name on them.

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