Everyone has differing opinions about sex. However, we can all agree that we can always find ways to improve. And, this is especially true of the sexual relationship you develop with your partner.
For starters, men and women are very different when it comes to intimacy. After all, each person has a distinct way of enjoying sex.
It’s important to understand that sex is a very personal thing. It is something that only you and your partner should discuss, so that you can find out what each person likes best.
Many people (wrongly) think that sex is all about penetration, orgasm, and nothing more. Nothing could be further from the truth! Sex is much more than that.
It is about enjoying, feeling, and connecting with your partner. It should be a pleasant time.
This is why we want to share 9 tips for making your sexual life much more pleasant.
Increase the pleasure
It is very important to maintain the spark between lovers, which is why it is important to change things up from time to time.
This will make the sexual act much more interesting and exciting.
It isn’t just about practicing all the positions in the Kama Sutra. Foreplay is a fundamental aspect of enjoying sex.
This is why it is so important to apply techniques a few tricks here and there to create unforgettable memories.
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How to make sex more pleasurable
1. Use your gifts of seduction
Start with your appearance. Nobody likes an unkempt, unshaven, foul-smelling person.
We recommend that you perfect your look for the occasion. Shave, remove unwanted hair, bathe, splash on some perfume, and wear something sexy.
In the bedroom you can choose to wear lingerie, stockings, garter belts, or lacy underwear.
2. Increase desire
- Foreplay is all about increasing desire, and it doesn’t have to happen right before going into the bedroom.
Start flirting from early on in the day: stroke her hair, play with his tie…
When it’s time for action, you can play with her ears, and explore his neck and chest with kisses.
- Another exciting option is to give massages. If he had a stressful day at work, give him a back massage, using relaxing essential oils.
Massage his arms and hands as you kiss him…believe us, he’ll love it!
- Erotic dancing is another great option. You can play some sexy music and dance for your partner, or you can dance together.
If you’re up for it, you can perform a strip-tease, dancing passionately as you undress.
3. Making out
This goes hand in hand with the previous point. Kissing is essential. Kiss each other in the darkness. Kiss slowly and take your time, as you look into eachothers’ eyes.
You can kiss other parts of your partner’s body: ears, neck, etc.
4. Experimenting with new positions
The most common position used for sex is the missionary position. It canpleasurable for both, and it allows lovers to look each other in the eyes.
You can take advantage of this position to kiss your partner’s lips, nibble on his arms, or caress his back.
However, you can experiment with other positions in your sexual relationship. Research and discuss with your partner the positions that you are willing to do, or what you would like to try.
You can implement the famous cowgirl position, in which the girl is on top. A favorite position for guys is doggy-style; try this position out, and you’ll be sure to find it enjoyable.
5. Watch out for caresses
Caressing is very important, however, we can sometimes go overboard. Caressing is very different from kneading bread, so don’t make the mistake of being too intense with your caresses.
Use your hands to touch her face, cheeks, neck, chest, and back. Slow caresses increase passion.
6. What should I say?
They say that the clitoris can be found in the ear, since many women say that they love to hear phrases such as, “You’re beautiful”, “You look so sexy”, or “I adore you.”
It’s very important for verbal stimulation to be included in your sexual relationship. It will make the moment so much more sensual.
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7. Just long enough
Women normally don’t enjoy being with men who don’t last long and are very violent and aggressive in bed. Remember, less is more.
A calmer rhythm is preferred, and one that lasts from 15 to 20 minutes, in order to be able to savor every sensation.
8. Use lubricant
Many people don’t realize that the latex in condoms can cause vaginal dryness. For this reason, we recommend using lubricant.
You’ll avoid undesirable situations, and you’ll be able to enjoy your sexual relationship much more.
Don’t fall asleep!
It’s true that most men tend to fall asleep right away after having sex, but don’t do it!
Falling asleep right away is an antidote to passion. Staying a while longer, while kissing and caressing, will be the icing on the cake.