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7 Toxic People You Should Avoid to Be Happy

We talk about toxic people to refer to those who seek to invade you with their negative attitudes and alter your happiness.
7 Toxic People You Should Avoid to Be Happy

Last update: 21 August, 2020

There are different types of toxic people, so you’re not always going to find yourself with the same attitudes or accusations. So, do you know how to identify the different types of harmful attitudes that pertain to these individuals? Today, we’ll go over them in order to give you a proper understanding.

Toxic people are two-faced

While it’s natural to become discouraged in the face of certain difficulties, our positive attitude reappears soon or later. However, what happens when those around us are characterized by recriminations and constant pessimistic attitudes. These individuals–toxic people–can bring us down and darken our perspectives, even regarding ourselves.

Encountering people that constantly belittle the positive aspects of others or try to transfer their own insecurities onto them can be a serious obstacle on our paths.

Today, we’ll look at the different types of toxic people that exist. What’s more, we’ll also explain why it’s best to keep your distance from them before they cause you harm.

1. Toxic people: The opportunist

Woman in a toxic relationship

There are many types of opportunists, but we’ll focus on the two that are most common: manipulators and those who want pity. 

The first takes advantage of their social status, skills, or abilities in order to make you feel inferior or dependent on them. Consequently, they may adopt a dominant attitude to get you to fulfill their wishes, even if you don’t want to.

On the other hand, people who seek pity want to tap into your empathy. They try to get you to help solve their problems for them, or compel you to help. It’s never wrong to help a friend who’s going through a difficult time, but it’s important to be wary when it becomes too constant.

2. Those who avoid responsibility

A person who is unable to recognize their mistakes or places the responsibility and blame on others is a person who has a negative influence on your life.

Not only are they able to transmit that kind of attitude, but also, at some point, you’re likely to become their victim. These people are typically immature and lack the ability to face their own challenges or hardships.

You should try and get away from them as quickly as possible, odds are they’ll load all of their problems and responsibilities on you.

3. People who don’t like you

There’s a chance that someone may not like you without even bothering to get to know you. When it comes to this type of toxic people, they may even be annoyed by your mere presence.

Therefore, any efforts you make to impress them will be useless. Rather than wasting your time, focus on your true circle of friends and loved ones.

Girl rejected by a group of girls

4. Those who can’t leave their comfort zone

These individuals are afraid of everything and want you to feel the same fear of new experiences that are our of the ordinary.

Nevertheless, if someone wants to live that way, it doesn’t mean everyone else has to imitate them or follow their example. Everyone’s own fears and doubts will follow their course no matter what other people do.

5. People who point out your flaws–the worst kind of toxic people

Everyone has flaws and, sometimes, if someone points them out, it will help you to overcome them and improve yourself. On the one hand, there are those who express their concerns honestly and in a constructive manner. But, on the other hand, there are those who use your weaknesses as an opportunity to attack you.

Those who fall into the first group can help you learn, grow, and improve on a personal level. However, those in the first group, who are toxic, only wear down your self-esteem and diminish your ability to change.

Bullies at school

6. People who fill you with doubt

Sometimes you need a person by your side to help point out the risks associated with certain situations or activities. There are toxic people who only seek to sow the seeds of doubt and block the desires of others, however.

They typically live their life in fear, staying in their comfort zone, and they want others to be that way too. That’s why they might try to sabotage your actions, add to your insecurities, or fill you with negativity.

7. Lazy people

Laziness is a highly contagious condition. When you’re surrounded by people who are lazy, sooner or later it will catch up with you.

Even the strongest of people can fall into this trap when they’re constantly around those who don’t see the need to get anything done. Interactions with lazy people who drag out all of their projects can cause your own productivity to decrease.

In fact, studies that one developed by the Psychology Department of the University of Beijing points out that the emotions of others transfer onto their environment and affect the mood of those around them.

Lazy person watching TV

What do toxic poeple have to offer?

As you can see, there are several types of toxic people and all are capable of hurting us in one way or another. Detecting the signs and taking action as soon as possible can help you prevent problems, maintain emotional balance, and preserve your well-being.

At the same time, it’s important to look at yourself to see if you possess any of the above attitudes. Doing so will benefit your own personal growth and improve your relationships with those around you and with yourself

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