The 5 Sexiest Positions for Men

· February 10, 2018
With these sexual positions enjoyment is enhanced while his erection will be improved and there is more control over the situation

When it comes to sex, we all have our preferences and tastes. However, as with women, men are always looking for the ultimate sense of pleasure during sex, and that’s why in today’s article we’ll be looking at the sexiest positions for men.

The sexiest positions for men are the ones that are more visual. This means that, beyond the physical stimulation, they are excited when they observe their partner’s body. They love watching the expressions and reactions of their partner while having sex.

Moreover, many men enjoy the feeling of being in control. They try to penetrate as deep as possible, and love feeling the sensations their partner’s vagina gives them as they move together during intercourse.

Knowing these positions in advance not only helps the man to enjoy it more, but will also improve his erection and ability to control ejaculation (if desired).

Bearing all this in mind, we’ll bring you 5 of the sexiest positions for men that will be sure to turn him on!

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1. Sexiest positions for men: Submission

Sexy woman in underwear on top of man.

Although they can’t deny that they love to control things, most men also feel very excited when their partner takes the initiative and takes complete control of the situation.

This is why a position of submission is one that they enjoy during sex. It’s perfect to be at the mercy of the woman and enjoy the pleasure of her hip movements.

How to do it

  • The man should lie on his back and the woman should sit on his erect penis, but with her back to him.
  • From this position, she can set the rhythm to her liking and, at the same time, he can accompany her movement by holding her hips.
  • Since both can have their hands free, they can stimulate each other’s erogenous zones.

2. Trapeze

This isn’t one of the easiest positions to carry off. However, because of the challenge it represents, and because of the depth of penetration, it’s often one of the sexiest positions for men, and one of their favorites.

It requires more skill and balance than other positions, but it allows you to maintain eye contact with your partner.

How to do it

  • The woman should be lying on her back, relaxed, while the man draws her with his arms towards his body to start the penetration.
  • The man has control and will, therefore, set the pace as excitement increases.
  • The idea is to gradually increase the intensity and strength of the movements and thrusts to enjoy a more passionate sexual experience

See also: Sensory Stimulation: Senses That Give Us Sexual Pleasure

3. Dragon

A sexy couple in bed.

The dragon position can bring male arousal to its highest level. This means you can have that feeling of dominance that he likes so much and also vary the rhythm, slowing down ejaculation.

The constant contact with the buttocks and the rubbing of his testicles will enhance the sensation and make the experience more amazing.

How to do it

  • The woman should lie face down with a pillow under the the pubic bone. This is to lift her buttocks and arch her body to get deeper penetration.
  • Then, the man gets on her back, holding her hands (which can be above her head) and assuming the same position.
  • Once in position, vaginal penetration from behind should use circular movements to vary the rhythm.

4. Legs on the Shoulders

Visual contact with this position is inevitable. For this reason, it is one of the sexiest positions for men, and one of the most pleasurable.

Due to the position of the woman’s hips, penetration is deeper. He can also maintain control and feel dominant.

How to do it

  • The woman remains lying down and puts her legs over his shoulders.
  • During penetration, the man leans forward to make contact with her thighs, reaching the desired depth.

5. Lotus

A sexy couple kissing in bed.

The lotus is another position where the woman can have control. For the man it’s very exciting because, as well as enjoying the movement, he can feel the woman’s breasts on his chest and grasp his partner’s buttocks at the same time.

How to do it

  • The man sits cross-legged while she sits on his erect penis, hugging his torso with her legs.
  • The woman moves her hips and carries the rhythm.

Ready to practice these positions? Remember, to innovate your relationships and reach a maximum degree of pleasure, it is essential to have good communication with your partner.

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