Highly sensitive people can cause misunderstandings in others. Many times, they’re seen as “exaggerating” too much.
They respond to everyday situations with automatic and undesired eye-catching reactions. This is normal for them, and you need to remember that.
However, judging them before you know what’s going on causes misunderstandings. Most people don’t know the discomfort that they feel and that causes these kinds of reactions.
Today, we’d like to provide you with a guide to understanding some common reactions of highly sensitive people.
1. They can’t stand pressure
For very sensitive people, having several different tasks to do can be overwhelming. They prefer to concentrate on one and give it their all. In fact, they’re usually very creative people.
They work better alone and in a quiet atmosphere. When this doesn’t happen, they get stressed and are unable to be effective and productive.
When there is noise around them or someone insists on them being attentive to several questions, they start to feel blocked.
When this happens, highly sensitive people become irritable and are difficult to put up with.
2. They avoid chaotic environments
In our society, chaos is always well received, it seems that we look for sound, loud music, and strong stimulants that keep out silence.
However, highly sensitive people avoid all of this.
Being stimulated by too many things at once drives them crazy. Smells, sounds, interruptions… these all take away the balance they had up until that moment.
Sometimes, it gets to the point that they even get annoyed by the sound of chewing.
The reaction they give when presented with these “small things” is interesting. They also usually end up annoying the people around them who don’t understand that they’re making them uncomfortable.
3. They take things personally
A person who is highly sensitive takes the experiences they have personally. This happens because they’re empathetic.
They react strongly to social injustices. They also react strongly to someone who is taken advantage of by another person.
This also comes from the fact that they focus on details. They’re experts in analyzing non-verbal communication that says more than words do.
Because of this, they can always tell if you are trustworthy or if you’re hiding something.
They don’t like this. It also concerns others. This is because people don’t generally focus on and analyze these micro expressions that we all have.
Some believe that these are simply their imagination. Others try to say that “they should’t take it personally.” However, none of this work.
4. They need alone time like fish need water
This could be a big surprise to the rest of the world. After all, people generally avoid being alone. They fear feeling separated from everyone and everything.
However, people who are highly sensitivity look for solitude. They seek moments of peace and calm when nothing from the outside world will affect them.
It’s normal for them to decline invitations, turn off their phone for a day, or not feel like answering messages.
Unfortunately, this can cause their friends to get upset. This situation sometimes gives them problems with their partner.
This doesn’t mean that they don’t want to spend time with their friends. It just means that they need more time for themselves than others do.
5. If something hurts, they aren’t the same
Highly sensitive people’s balance is highly sensitive not just with what happens in their mind, but also what happens to their bodies. This is because they are very closely tied to their body.
A headache, a stomach ache, being hungry, or any other discomfort can become unbearable. This causes instant changes in their behavior that make people around them worry.
Sometimes, it’s difficult to deal with highly sensitive people. After all, putting ourselves in their shoes is very difficult.
However, not judging, asking questions to understand, and opening your mind to be able to understand how they see the world is extremely helpful for both of you.
Are you a highly sensitive person? Have you been around one?